
Right Track Coaching Newsletter
Transform * Lead * Love
May 2007
In this issue:
The Power of Certainty is Extra
Special in Getting Extraordinary Results
Who among you can climb more than one mountain at a time? Visualize
that if you can! Imagine having one foot on one mountain and the other
foot on
a different mountain with the intention of reaching both mountain tops.
Pretty ridiculous wouldn’t you say! How can you be certain you will
reach the summit of either mountain when you are divided? Yet a folly that
threatens many is to try and prove that more than one mountain can be climbed
simultaneously! – how? By multi-tasking!
There is underlying bravado in being part of the world that acknowledges
multi-tasking. Driving and being on the cell phone; answering the cell phone
while in a face-to-face conversation with someone else; allowing unimportant
situations to interrupt while working on a project, thereby breaking concentration;
answering text messages while at meetings, etc.
Multi-tasking has its advantages – such as cleaning the breakfast
table and watching/listening to the TV or walking and listening to your
iPod. These combined actions seem to go together, like Oreo cookies and
milk.
Climbing your mountain isn’t about multi-tasking. It is going up one
step at a time. It takes certainty – attitude - focus – skills – desire – planning
- correct action – and support. Multi-tasking muddles navigating to
the top. It resembles jumping from one mountain to another. Most of us are
performing various roles in our lives. Those roles make up our mountain.
Sometimes it feels like we are pushing a boulder up the mountain. One of
the ways to get rid of the boulder is to STOP to get a clearer picture of
the cost in trying to climb multiple mountains. Create and attract those
places, people and events that support you and bring certainty as you move
up to the top of your mountain.
" The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice
what we are for what we could become."
Charles Dubos
TIP:
For a week make a list each day of when you were multi-tasking.
How did
it serve you?
How did it serve others?
For example, if you were in a conversation
with someone and you stopped to answer you phone, which could have been
handled after your conversation (not everything is an emergency or life
and death deal), how was the person being served by the intrusion?
Were
you truly a fully present listening supporter for them or was your mind
full of chatter of what you had to do next? Or did you stop and were fully
present when you on the phone with someone? Or were you checking email at
the same time you were talking?
Practice being fully present to what you
are doing in a way that others feel your authenticity. It will make a huge
difference in making your mountain climbing easier. Join RTC for our f'ree
teleclass to bring more certainty to the trek up your mountain.
Check out our monthly f'ree
teleclasses here!
Leadership Pointers
- Creating More Impact With the Power of Certainty
"
Make no little plans. They have no magic to stir men’s blood."
Daniel H Burnham
Certainty is not about “being right.” It is about “being
on the Right Track.” There is a big difference.
The “being right” model
can cause fall-out from your employees; employees sabotaging the work
due to lack of being included in decisions; no room for new possibilities
and
loss of trust.
With certainty you hold the space for the vision in your
charge. This allows for greater employee retention, less stress, creative
solutions, better job atisfaction and ease. Your career is part of
what makes up your mountain. When you are on the Right Track with
certainty you:
- … are empowered
- … have increased productivity
- … better job satisfaction
- … better balance between career and personal life
- … improved health
- … wake up looking forward to your day
TIP: You are most effective when you are present to what you are doing and
who you are being. If in your multi-tasking you are shortchanging
those you are with and cutting down the quality of your work, reconsider
the costs.
When you are climbing the mountain that means the
most to you with certainty and focus, the above benefits are available.
It is more
attractive
to
be
a leader with certainty and confidence. Would you
follow
someone who was wishy-washy?
Transition Pointers:
Exploring Uncertainty to Certainty
During transition the journey is fraught with uncertainties, specifically
when it comes about unexpectedly. It could be loss of a job, health issues,
and relationship problems, death of a loved one, or anything that takes
us in new directions.
How we go about answering the question, “what’s
next?” is different for each of us. However, there are some common
themes. One, unfortunately, is to try and live in the past and fall
victim to circumstances. Another is resting awhile in the form of making
no decision
and staying in the neutral zone. The neutral zone is listening at a
deeper level to your heart. It is rusting in the wisdom of your heart.
Sometimes
going rapidly into a new direction of changing careers is the best solution
before talking yourself out of the chance to create a new life. There
are numerous choices even when we think we don’t have any.
TIP:
When you are ready to muse through the labyrinth of what’s
next in your life, it is wise to get out of your head and listen
to your heart.
Transformation is your own individual process. Do not skip the process.
To try and rush an outcome is like going through a fast-food drive-in.
If you skip the process you will miss the riches of what is being born
in your evolution, plus there is a good chance you will miss your mark.
The journey of transformation is called “The Hero’s Journey” by
Joseph Campbell. Having a life coach partner with you in your journey
is without a doubt an investment in your next chapter.
"
The world fears a new experience more than it fears anything. Because
a new experience displaces so many old experiences…The world
doesn’t
fear a new idea. It can pigeonhole any idea. But it can’t geon-hole
a real new experience." D. H. Lawrence
TIP:
Questions have the answers:
- What is it time to let go of?
- What do you think is waiting in the wings of your life to take flight?
- What is it you secretly wanted to learn? (art, music, new career opportunity)
- What permission do you need to give yourself before moving forward?
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